What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 08:31
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
Or because they’re happy without you.
Have you ever accidentally found out that you were about to be fired?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
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Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Because only you LOVED?
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
Who was the actor least deserving of an Academy Award?
Because you are in sorrow without them?
Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
How does the narcissist react when he realizes you no longer care?
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
What is the worst emotional pain you ever felt as an adult?
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
Or because she doesn’t love you back?
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Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
~KSR
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Because you were just unlucky in love?